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Is my honour your responsibility to protect?

Whose honour ?

11 July 2007.

A Hindu girl from one village elopes with a Muslim boy from another.

Next day, scores of Muslim women from the boy’s village are raped, made to parade naked…

Get the message?

If I choose to marry someone out of my own free will, as the girl who is a major did,

then the men from my community will be offended.So much so that they will go out of their houses and brutally rape (even minors).

Because their , not my , honour is at stake.And after brutally raping women from the ‘other’ community, their honour will not be harmed.

The disgust that prompted them to get offended does not come into picture when they will rape another human being.

Whose disgrace are we trying to safegaurd? All authorities and police remained silent in UP.The police, in fact are chasing the poor couple who are in hiding.

And in order to safegaurd another version of the same honour, the incidents will get hushed, and justice will never be done.

Whose honour is honour?

What about the pain that you inflict on someone else in trying to avenge some notion of morality?

Shame.Shame on us. On our silence. Shame on the media.On the police. On UP.On our State.

This event surprisingly does’nt find coverage in the news, because the journalists are too busy blaring accounts of terrorrism. None of this surprisingly qualifies as terrorism.

Or terror. I’m terrified.


July 16, 2007 | 11:13 AM Comments  4 comments

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Rommel707 Rommel T. Brillantes
July 16, 2007 | 4:07 PM
Hello!
I'm deeply touch of this event that I may say you are a witness.

I'm one of the founding pioneer of Youth Media Network. We aim to teach young people for responsible media consumer and originator or information.

If I may have the opportunity to get your story, I might be able to help you unveil this hidden "honour"

Please let me know how may we ease your sentiments.

You may contact me here rombril@gmail.com
laurakenyon LauraK
July 16, 2007 | 5:50 PM

i also found this post very powerful. i think you bring up a good point about events like these. whose honour is really involved in this situation? how does protecting honour give anyone the right to act this way? it's very frustrating. i hope what you've shared gets to the attention of more people.
Raheema Raheema
July 17, 2007 | 11:35 AM
Thank you
Thank you Laura and Rommel.
For further discussion on this post see http://raahi.wordpress.com/2007/07/16/is-my-honour-your-responsibility-to-protect/#comment-95
jamal Jamal
July 18, 2007 | 1:30 AM
hi
dear Raheema....i felt deeply hurt, coz of the news......its good that atleast we have people like you who has openly shared their frustration on these issues. Even i found your post very robust.....
I would also like to share with you that there is an organisation [a forum] named DHANAK [dhanak.org.in] which supports interreligion and inter caste marriages. In our society we need such efforts for strong advocacy against this brutality and madness in the name of honour.
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